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Last Day of 2012 @ Ward’s Island!

31 Monday Dec 2012

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Year 2012 in Review!

22 Saturday Dec 2012

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connection, hope, reflection, relationships, review, revision, Year 2012, Year 2013

Another, January to December, 12 months went by! We wonder about time and how fast it flies. It is time to reflect on what we did and how we lived the past 12 months. Our reflection may bring new insights and brighten our pathway in the new year.

Life is an unknown journey, seemingly, with unlimited possibilities.  We don’t know whom we meet and interact with; we don’t know where relationships take and lead us to; we don’t know where we end up at the end …

Everyday, we step into new life territories intentionally or unintentionally. Everyday, possibilities are offered; regardless if we notice, embrace or ignore.

Our previous years of living, our self-knowledge and our life direction somewhat influence what and how we respond to offered possibilities.  Moments of intentionality are milestones in our growth and developments; moments of coincident are complementary to our life journey;  moments of uncertainty determine what possibilities to take or dismiss in life.

Every year, we attempt to evaluate our choices; we tend to look back and feel happy or regret for what we did or didn’t. Every year, we promise to do things differently, we plan to change our habits and become who we’d prefer to be.

What are your thoughts in these last remaining days of year 2012?  What do you want to change? What do you want to keep?  How do you see your life going in the upcoming year? Is it the direction that you want it to go?

It may be useful to review what we did or what happened to us in past 12 months. No one knows what the next year will bring, but, without predicting the future, let’s hope for a year of understanding, harmony, curiosity and connection!

Happy Holidays!

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Inclusion as Solution!

01 Saturday Dec 2012

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human rights, leadership, politics, society

We live in a world that is constantly dividing people into categories; categories that put people against each other.  The most prevailing category that has had detrimental effects on human relationships is ‘us vs. them’.   This category has become a defining characteristic of human interactions. People with similar beliefs/ideas/views stick together and take positions against those who have different beliefs/ideas/views.

The ‘us vs. them’ approach has led human -beings to war, abuse and violence in history of man- kind.  This approach has been practiced in many various levels; including international, national, social, personal and relational relationships for many ages. It feels as if this approach is part of the fabrication of our culture and nature. It is so embedded in our social cultural contexts that manifests itself in every interaction we make with one another.

The ‘us vs them’ approach has brought exclusion, separation, suffering and isolation to human relationships.  It has made us experience further misery, resentment and trauma generations after generations.

I am wondering about moments of connection between opposite parties/groups when we felt and had experiences of deeper understanding of one another. Do you recall those moments in your life?  I believe that experiences of connection and inclusion lead to further innovation, creativity and growth in human relationships.

Undoing the effects of the ‘us vs them’ approach on human beings requires awareness, reflection and collaboration. It needs our persistence and patience.   Reconstructing human relationships, in any scale, needs our collective efforts to create and seize possibilities/ opportunities to become more inclusive and practice ‘Inclusion’ in relationships.

Our political, cultural, social views/ beliefs/ideas are to remain in our lives and they will be part of our daily conversational discourses. Our differences will get wider and further escalated when we apply the ‘us vs them’ approach in every situation of conflict.

Being open to ‘others’ and understanding ‘different ideas/views/ beliefs may help us become more engaged with one another in a more inclusive fashion.  Making efforts in seeing matters from different angles/points of views may invite us to acknowledge contribution made and it would deepen our understanding of situations.  Staying away from ‘the us vs them approach’ will allow us to hear each other differently and discover more common grounds with others.

Inclusion brings everyone together, invites everyone from all walks of life to join the conversation. Inclusion is The only way!

Happy Possibilities!

Tahereh Barati, M.A, RMFT

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